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please welcome guest poster: tara gentile, scoutie girl

do you eat broccoli rabe? i didn’t until about a month ago. since i went vegetarian, i’ve been trying new vegetables like, well, a vegetarian! i was going to say crazy person – same difference.

also up until about a month ago, my 20 month old only had 4 teeth. she sat, crawled, walked, talked on time – but her teeth were stubborn.

trust me, this is related.

scoutie girl tara gentile

she’s always been a good eater but was always limited to foods of very soft texture because of the lack of munchers. coincidentally, she started getting her molars when i started buying broccoli rabe. one night at dinner, she pointed at the bitter, garlicy, vinegary broccoli robe sitting on my plate and demanded a taste.

then another taste. then a bite. until, over the course of a week, she decided it was one of the best foods ever.

i looked at my husband and exclaimed, “i’m not even sure i like this yet… how does she like it?”

i’ve always been one of those people who wanted to take my fingers and give a good flick to a parent who sad, “oh honey, you won’t like this [insert adult food here].” how do you know? what if they do like it?

if they don’t give it a chance, the parents not only put into the child’s mind that the food doesn’t taste good. they’ve given him the idea that trying new things isn’t fun or exciting.

scoutie girl tara gentile

i think new things – strange things – different things are horribly exciting. in fact, i pretty live every day for something new! not surprisingly, i get bored easily.

this mindset keeps me learning new things, reaching new goals, and always pushing forward. i’m never content with the status quo.

likewise, this “lesson” doesn’t just apply to toddler-types.

what signals are you sending out into the world right now? are you telling the universe (or your customers, your friends, your colleagues) that you’re ready for something new and exciting? or have you put up a wall that tells everyone “oh i won’t like that so don’t even try?”

scoutie girl tara gentile

i really hope you make the choice to day to give something new a try! and maybe make some broccoli rabe for dinner tonight, too.

tara gentile is the editor of scoutie girl, the blog with a penchant for the passionately handmade. she’s teaching an ecourse in may on learning to tell your story online.

[images: fresh broccoli photograph by honeyandjamphotos, red matzo bowl by atelierbb, and

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  • What is the difference between broccoli rabe and regular broccoli? Is it like broccolini? Ever since I was a kid, I’ve always been a super picky eater, especially when it comes to veggies, but broccoli has always been one of my favorites.

  • Deirdre | April 7, 2010

    Broccoli rabe was a staple at my grandmother’s….with tons of garlic. The best. When I smell broccoli rabe cooking I immediately think of her.
    Trick is when you think its cooked, cook it some more. You don’t want to eat it when its color is electric/bright like say broccoli, its incredibly bitter at that point.

  • hey mallory! yes – i think it’s the same thing. also, rappini…. i think ;)

    thanks for the tip, deirdre! mostly i’ve just been putting it on a sheet pan & roasting it in the oven. i’m really learning to enjoy it and a side of it makes a bowl of pasta seem down right healthy!

  • yes i have noticed that if we don’t put limitations on our children, they will eat and try so much more. but i love how you made the parallel to our lives and being open to new things. i am soooo ready for something new and exciting!

  • When I was little, my mum taught me how to make broccoli taste good… we wrapped in in filo pastry and topped it with three cheese sauce! mmmm! I would sprinkle the toppings on and help her fold up the pastry with my little hands… I’ve always loved my vegies!

  • This makes me happy!

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