March 3, 2011
if you follow me on the old twitter thang, you might know that my mister recently decided to start eating vegan. i’m a supporter of both all things healthy and him, so it made me excited, but quickly made me wonder, ‘what does this mean for me’? since i’m the cook, it certainly has some heavy implications for our dinners at home. but remembering why i think being vegan is such a good idea in the first place, i quickly decided to at least give it a try. why not? i find myself emotionally attached to dairy (but no longer meat, as i gave that up a long time ago). but isn’t that kind of strange? why are we as a culture so attached to dairy? no other culture in the world is! i think i can live without it. especially with all the yummy alternatives there are these days.
but i immediately started being self-conscious of what people would think. i didn’t want to tell anyone. more important then them just thinking i was a real quack, i didn’t want them to judge me. saying your vegan these days comes with a pretty hefty toll. people judge. and hard. i can just hear them saying, “you say you’re vegan but you’re wearing leather shoes?” and then immediately dismissing me. i don’t think that’s fair.
in fact, i still plan on eating honey. local, raw, organic honey. it’s good and incredibly good for you (remember?).
i still own some leather shoes and david will still wear is favorite leather belt. we’re not perfect. we drive a big nasty car that only gets 20 miles to the gallon. i’m not proud of that, but you know what? i am proud of what we ARE doing. and i’m proud of each and every little thing that you are doing.
why are people so often negative to people who are trying to do good? i guess what i’m saying is that i don’t like labels. vegetarian, raw foodist, vegan, paleo, locavore, freegan, pescatarian, fruititarian (just google these for some fun reads). if you can stick to it, great. but i think by labeling ourselves, we sign ourselves up for failure- and maybe (just maybe) even to be judged by others.
i’m interested in being the healthiest i can be. does that most closely resemble a vegan diet? yes. will it always? probably not. might i get chickens again and eat gorgeous, local and organic eggs right from my own back yard? probably.
i want to celebrate the good things. i want to lift up every conscious decision we as human beings make- no matter how great or how small. i’m proud of anyone who cares, even if it’s just by a little.
so what do you do? i want to hear about it. do you have meatless mondays at your house? did you bike to work? pee in the shower to save water? did you pass up one burger from a fast food restaurant last week? did you buy something organic? support a local farm?
even if it’s one decision, one time- i think it makes a huge difference and i want to know about it. i want to celebrate you.
on the flip side: even though you’re a vegetarian, did you eat a piece of meat last week? confession time! are you vegans hiding honey in your cabinets? any paleo’s out there still eating chocolate? i know you’re out there, so fess up! i’ll start in the comments section.
i want to start erasing labels and removing stereotypes from those of us who are just trying to do some good. we’re not perfect. i want to acknoledge the greatest gift we have on this earth- the ability to make our own decisions about what we will and will not put in our mouths.
i want to celebrate you!
i’ll ‘meat’ you in the comments section.